当你觉得你的世界塌了

最近读了朋友在FB的po文，让我有些感触。
在几个月前，我也有相同的经历。
我能明白那种心情和打击。感觉世界突然塌了。

她们说我选错路。我不适合。我很差。很差。连低级的都不如。
就这样抹去了我多年来的努力。因为，她们用了她们的尺来衡量我。
我开始怀疑我自己。我迷失了方向。我泪如雨下。
我这些年都错了吗？我不该走这条路吗？

我好失落。不知所措。我该这么办？谁来帮帮我？
我只允许我自己哭一个晚上而已因为我没时间。

我不应该怀疑我自己。她们不是我，没有和我同样的经历。
我不应该让无谓的人扰乱我的世界。不要以‘我’的标注来衡量别人。

Whether is it out of concern, it is right to impose your unwanted suggestions on someone?
I hate it when people gave suggestions because they are concerned.
While I appreciate the concern, it does not means I need your suggestions.
Who are they to ask people to change their lives?
These are not constructive suggestions. I find them destructive.
What is poor? Does it matter if we can't buy luxury goods, dine at restaurants and fly business class to exotic countries? Are we then poor by that standard? If you cannot put yourself in the shoes of the person, the least you can do is to respect their decision on the way they live their lives. If you are a true friend, the least you can do is to support them not to push them down.

路是自己选的。虽然辛苦，可是开心满足就好。尽量不去理会他人毫无意义的言语。
我们没有伤害任何人。我们尽本分做好自己就可以了。
信念很重要。佩服那些能坚持维护自己信念，勇敢去追求梦想的人。

真心的朋友也很重要。不是天天见面的才是真心朋友。有些是默默在背后支持你的。
不用太多言语，用心去感受的。

朋友，加油咯。我们继续努力。

(Dedicated to my friend (and friends) who got lost momentarily.)